Илана Либ
Harmonizing the Natal Chart
Preface
The harmonization of the natal chart, and therefore of life, occurs through understanding and fulfilling one’s karmic tasks, harmonizing, and working through the planets according to their positions in the houses and signs.
Part 1 – Harmonizing Life According to the Month of Birth
Born in January
People born in January must be charismatic, bright, and express their creative talents. It will be difficult to do so because, even if they are aware of their talents, it feels as if something is preventing them from realizing them. The reason may be that their thoughts, feelings, and creativity were ridiculed by parents, relatives, or teachers. Under such treatment, a person feels unworthy, tries not to express themselves, or does something in a way that no one notices.
A person born in January must undergo the lesson of maturation—revealing their talent despite external circumstances. It is beneficial to express oneself everywhere: at school, in higher education, at work, talking about oneself, sharing ideas, maintaining social media presence, improving one’s activities, and, upon starting a business, actively promoting one's services.
It is recommended to actively meet new people, take the initiative, not wait for others to approach, and not be shy about inviting someone on a date.
One should not be afraid of opportunities and should boldly engage in creative projects. This will not only help in self-expression but will also attract material resources. It is important to remember that you are a creator, and therefore, you should try everything if an opportunity arises. This can include self-expression through sports, voice, singing, poetry, painting, and many other forms.
Sometimes, such a person may be shy about speaking or singing in public because they struggle to pronounce a certain letter or because their words or singing were devalued in childhood by others. It is recommended to develop public speaking skills, vocal training, or acting. It is also beneficial to use one's voice in professional activities. You must know that you possess a magical voice capable of attracting and influencing people. Through your voice, you can attract clients. However, it is important to remember that your voice has the power to create both positive and negative effects. Your positive thoughts and words can generate something good, while negative thoughts and words can create negativity. A curse or ill wish toward someone may come true, but it will eventually return to you. Therefore, learning to control your thoughts is of great importance.
Unveiling creative talents is your karmic task. Through your creativity, you will help unlock the creative potential in others. You can start by incorporating creativity into your activities, sharing it with at least a small audience. If you sing somewhere, post a video on social media; do the same if you write or draw something. This way, you will gradually become a bright and charismatic individual.
An important task is not only accumulating knowledge but applying it in practice.
Such individuals need to work on relationships with siblings, peers, and classmates. Those born in January may struggle with the arrival of younger siblings in their lives, as it challenges their ego. Those with older brothers or sisters may have experienced ridicule or bullying from them. These situations were given to you for the development of your ego, to teach you independence from others’ opinions, to help you cope with such circumstances, and to learn to express yourself.
The next karmic task is growing up, meaning achieving financial independence through professional activity.
Once you have completed all the tasks described above, it will be necessary to ensure that your ego does not negatively affect you. This can happen if you express yourself excessively and seek approval from others. In such cases, people will start devaluing, criticizing, or ignoring you. You need to maintain a realistic view of your strengths and weaknesses without depending on others' opinions. There is no need to please everyone (as this would make you dependent on others, which you must avoid). The desire to be liked by everyone stems from a lack of self-confidence, whereas your confidence must be unwavering.
Born in February
You need to understand who you truly are, regardless of what others say. Since childhood, people may have told you how you should be and what you should do.
Those born in February tend to adapt to others and help everyone, often without realizing who they really are. It is necessary to stop trying to please others and learn to set boundaries, to refuse requests if something does not suit or appeal to you. Esoteric knowledge can help in this process and aid in discovering your true self.
Self-care and nature also contribute to this understanding. Spending time alone in nature is particularly beneficial, as this is when answers about oneself emerge. Additionally, cleansing rituals, lighting candles, and keeping semi-precious stones in the home are recommended.
Another lesson you need to learn is self-sacrifice. You will always encounter people who demand sacrifices from you. This will continue until you learn to stand up for yourself. The primary focus should be on yourself.
Another important lesson for you is emotional dependency on others. A person born in February often invests heavily in others, but the effort is not reciprocated. They may feel unwell but find themselves unable to change the situation, especially if they are financially dependent. It is essential to build relationships in a way that ensures you can always walk away, achieving financial and emotional independence.
Sometimes, such individuals become very passive, doing nothing or focusing solely on household chores. This should not be the case. Meditation, yoga, walks, water treatments, and physical exercise can help.
Hidden knowledge, esotericism, and Vedic astrology can also be beneficial, especially if these topics interest the person. They can study them for personal growth, but if someone asks for help, they can offer guidance.
Improving relationships with the mother, separating from her, and establishing clear boundaries in the relationship are also crucial.
A regression therapist can help uncover the root cause of issues with the mother, which may stem from past lives.
Born in March
For these individuals, spiritual growth is supported by self-care, external beauty, and the beauty of their surroundings.
First and foremost, a person born in March must achieve material stability through work that brings them great joy. This is crucial because financial resources for creativity and pursuing one’s passions come through this enjoyment. Those born in March need to learn how to take pleasure in their work, as they often struggle with this from the start. Simply studying, working hard, setting goals, and forcing oneself to do things will not be effective. Work should be fulfilling, though it does not necessarily have to be creative.
If material wealth is not important to them, they may become passive, failing to develop or grow. In such a case, they will not derive joy from life and may feel as though it is passing them by. Therefore, it is essential to establish financial stability and truly enjoy the fruits of one’s achievements.
Another important task for those born in March is learning to enjoy life in general. It is vital to experience pleasure in all aspects of life, including personal relationships. Your ability to experience joy may be somewhat blocked. You need to learn to take pleasure in every moment, in different aspects of life—food, clothing, home decor, music, and much more. Do everything that brings you joy without hesitation, sparing neither money nor time.
Developing creative talents is another key lesson for you. You can discover many things about yourself through creativity. If you do not consider yourself a creative person, visit museums and exhibitions, dance, sing—anything that awakens your artistic inclinations. The purpose of this is to express in the material world what exists within your soul.
When you create something new, your fertility energy increases. As a result, you may develop multiple projects, not just one. You also have the potential to give life to more than one child. You may have two related projects or more than two ongoing at the same time. You possess an energy that brings new life into the world.
Women born in March may exhibit masculine traits, which can negatively affect their personal lives and relationships with other women. Therefore, it is important for them to cultivate and develop their femininity. This can be achieved through feminine spiritual and physical practices, dance, and spending time in the company of women.
Another crucial area for development is one’s relationship with the mother. The mother of a child born in March often takes on a leadership role, offering little tenderness and affection, showing little interest in the child’s emotions, and sometimes criticizing their appearance or comparing them to other children. As a result, when such a child grows up, they may struggle to express affection and tenderness in relationships, even when experiencing deep emotions.
Born in April
It is important for these people to develop self-confidence, become goal-oriented, set high future goals, and become the master of their own life.
It is essential to start earning quickly to achieve financial stability, which will help them gain inner self-confidence.
If the energy of a person born in April is used incorrectly—that is, if they earn little or do not advance in their career—they may begin to suppress those who are weaker than them and become a tyrant within their own family. If such a person does not invest in achievements or growth, circumstances will develop in such a way that they will have to work a lot. Financial problems may arise, and they will then be forced to negotiate with their superiors and climb the career ladder.
When financial stability comes, it will be necessary to learn to rest, relax, and stop worrying about their career. Since the person has already become a workaholic and a perfectionist, it will be difficult for them to do so. If, for some reason, they are unable to return to work, emotional burnout may occur.
It will be important to distribute energy evenly across different areas of life, paying attention to personal relationships, hobbies, sports, family, travel, and friends.
One must work on their relationship with their father. Competition with him is possible. Additionally, due to competition, relationships with relatives, friends, and colleagues may deteriorate.
Women born in April may compete with men, suppress them, and also struggle to get along with other women. Such a woman must learn to be soft and feminine (which will improve her personal life) while being strong at work. It also happens that a woman expects everything from her man and does not pursue her own career. This may be due to her father’s influence in childhood—he may not have allowed her to do anything. In cases where a woman competes with men, her father may have praised her and shown love only when she achieved something.
Born in May
These people are often authoritative figures whom others look up to. Their main task is to acquire and transmit knowledge.
Such a person must build their own system of values, as they may know better than any guru what they truly need. This applies to both personal life and profession. In this way, the person matures and does not waste themselves due to the influence of a mentor.
You possess the energy of a teacher and are capable of attracting students. If you give advice to your family and they laugh at you or do not listen, start consulting strangers and charging for your knowledge. If you acquire knowledge in any way but do not share it, the Universe may take away your job, money, or something else, leaving you with no choice but to apply your knowledge in practice.
It is also important for you to obtain diplomas and certificates—that is, to have social recognition. You must build a career or have your own business.
Spiritual growth is crucial, as well as working through relationships with your father and other men. Everything you dislike about your father must be changed within yourself—live differently if you are a man. If you are a woman, you are likely to obey your father in everything, which hinders your inner development. Such a woman tends to suppress her husband and children.
It also happens that a woman born in May grew up without a father or had an immature father.
Born in June
It is important for you to learn to make choices with your heart rather than your mind, or else decision-making will be very difficult. You need to learn to express love and care for people and to awaken unconditional love within yourself.
The Universe teaches you this through betrayal, lack of love, and devaluation in childhood, which closes your heart. This is a very difficult experience given to you so that you learn to love yourself, never ignore poor treatment, devaluation, and betrayal. Once you learn this—that is, once you love yourself and learn to love unconditionally—you will be able to share your love with the world through creativity.
All of this will contribute to you receiving love in return—through new acquaintances, money, and other means.
People born in June may consider themselves less worthy or less attractive than others. You must learn to accept yourself as you are and accept the world as it is.
Such people have heightened sensitivity to the words of others.
They also find it difficult to make choices, even in small matters. You should always listen to yourself and not make decisions based on what others say. Additionally, you should not shift the responsibility for making decisions onto others. Any choice that concerns you should be made by you alone—otherwise, it will negatively affect everyone.
There are difficulties in choosing a partner. It is common to get stuck in relationships and to want to return to an ex-partner. You should choose a partner only out of love, without hesitation.
Such people tend to idealize relationships, people, and situations, failing to see others’ flaws and ignoring problems and betrayal. Understanding of all this will come eventually, but too much time will be lost.
It is crucial to learn to see reality and everyone as they truly are, as this will significantly impact your entire life.
If you have a strong desire for something, you should not wait for the perfect time to pursue it—act here and now.
It will be very beneficial for you to express yourself through creativity, even if only as a hobby.
Born in July
These individuals must unlock their inner potential, the power to create, act, and achieve victory. It is very important to learn to rest and to stop in time. Otherwise, they may face health problems and emotional burnout. It is beneficial for them to rest for a few hours each day. They should not ignore feeling unwell. Engaging in sports, hobbies, and traveling is useful. Life must be diverse, as routine is exhausting. This way, excess energy will be released, bringing a sense of calm.
Those born in July may scatter themselves by doing too much in all areas of life, yet not achieving visible results. It is recommended that they set goals for specific timeframes, even for a single day, plan their actions, focus on the main things, and not be distracted by minor matters or by people who overload them with various tasks at work and home. They should strictly follow their goals and not be sidetracked by matters that hinder the realization of what is truly important. In the morning, they must first complete the most important tasks, while household chores, shopping, and socializing can wait.
The Universe may take away health, money, and stability if they waste their energy on insignificant matters. Once they achieve their goals, they need to begin sharing their knowledge and skills with others, leading people. This can be done in the workplace, in business, by motivating their family, or by becoming a coach or blogger. Their skills should only be shared with those who seek them, without imposing anything on anyone.
Born in August
These individuals must understand that everything in the Universe is fair. To teach them this, they are often confronted with what they perceive as injustice, so they mature more quickly. The more they resist this apparent injustice, the more painful situations they attract. This can happen in any area of life. Those born in August must learn to accept their flaws and negative traits and use them for something positive.
They must not blame anyone. Likewise, they should not expect anything in return when they help someone. They need to build a career, attain status, earn money, and engage in charity if possible.
It is crucial to understand that everything must always be done legally and fairly—there is no other way. If such a person treats someone unfairly, they will quickly receive punishment. For example, if they refuse to share an inheritance with those entitled to it, evade taxes, mistreat someone out of envy, devalue someone’s work, or disregard someone’s kindness, consequences will follow.
Born in September
These individuals recharge energetically when they are alone. When in prolonged contact with people, they partially lose themselves.
They have a sense that they are different from everyone else. And indeed, they are. They must accept their uniqueness. At some point, they may lose interest in external matters and feel drawn to deep knowledge and wisdom.
A person born in September cannot comprehend the Truth while constantly being among people. They discover themselves when alone. However, they should not isolate themselves excessively, as this will lead to difficulties in various aspects of life. If they lead a highly active social life and maintain numerous contacts, the Universe may take this away.
Such a person must understand who they truly are and then pass on their knowledge to others. Spiritual development is essential for them, but it does not necessarily mean sharing spiritual teachings. Their guidance can take many forms. They might think they lack unique knowledge despite their extensive life experience. They may live an ascetic lifestyle, believing they have come into this world solely for spiritual growth. However, their true spiritual development will only occur when they achieve a high standard of living.
They must earn well and allow themselves to enjoy all material blessings. If they have financial blockages, they need to work on them. These individuals know how to live authentically, have a deep gaze, radiate calmness, and possess spiritual energy.
Born in October
These individuals have a strong connection with the Universe and receive its guidance. It is essential to strengthen this gift within themselves.
Such a person does not relax easily, tends to control everything, and does not trust their surroundings, which creates fears and a sense of insecurity—despite having no real reason to feel this way. In such cases, the Universe sends lessons in the form of unpleasant situations at work, at home, or elsewhere.
The person attracts negativity but believes they were right in not trusting the world. Negative situations arise to transform their mindset. It is necessary to understand that nothing happens by chance and to start attracting favorable events by thinking positively, trusting the Universe, and accepting that if something does not happen, it simply means the time has not yet come. One should not be overly attached to deadlines when there is a strong desire to achieve something.
People born in October often consider themselves unlucky, while in reality, they are very fortunate. The problem arises when a person fails to see this and becomes fixated on negativity. It is recommended to pay attention to the signs that life sends, as they may provide answers to important questions.
Energy practices can be beneficial. It is important not to hesitate in spending money on pleasures if the opportunity exists—this will invite even more financial abundance. However, one should not completely abandon earning an income in pursuit of spirituality.
Those born in October experience many karmic encounters that transform them. Others absorb their qualities, change in their presence, and reflect what lies within them. If a person believes they are undeserving of something, their environment will reinforce these limitations. If they think they do not deserve high earnings, they will be paid little.
Born in November
The key mission for these individuals is to develop both spiritual and physical strength. From childhood, fate confronts them with negative situations and abuse to awaken their inner power.
These individuals may suffer from being devalued by a parent, relative, teacher, coach, classmate, or partner.
It is important for them to engage in sports, yoga, and dance, as these activities help release negative emotions. However, they must do so with genuine enjoyment and not merely as a routine. Everything should contribute to their inner spiritual development.
Their emotional state significantly affects their health, with many illnesses being psychosomatic. They need to get enough sleep, rest in time, and not delay seeking medical attention if a health issue arises.
Unleashing their sexual energy is crucial. Intimacy should be shared with someone with whom they have a spiritual connection. Engaging in sex without spiritual closeness will lead to emotional emptiness and may result in sexually transmitted diseases or unwanted pregnancy. Through sexuality based on spiritual intimacy, a person can attain unconditional love for the world, learning to interact with others through love rather than dominance.
Born in December
From childhood, such individuals may develop the habit of doing things to please others, leading to self-sacrifice and dependency. This, in turn, causes health issues. They give away their energy to partners, parents, children, and others—who may fail to appreciate them. Ultimately, they may feel unwanted by anyone.
It is necessary to stop sacrificing oneself, to force oneself to change, and to direct all energy inward. They must free themselves from guilt if it arises when they stop self-sacrificing, seek help from a psychologist, and acquire knowledge in psychology and Vedic astrology. Spiritual development and meditation will help in overcoming dependencies. Codependent relationships will be particularly difficult to break.
They must learn to serve others in a way that does not harm them, meaning they should receive something in return. Ideally, this should happen through their professional activities.
People born in December undergo the most difficult lessons of adulthood.
They have the gift of seeing things from an unconventional perspective and must accept their uniqueness.
They are highly sensitive to the energy of people and animals, often immersing themselves too deeply in others' problems.
Excessive self-analysis and dwelling on past negative experiences may interfere with their ability to live fully.
